A timber home surrounded by a flourishing garden

Pam
Shand

5 June 19479 August 2026

Pam reading with a cat asleep on her lap

Pam smiling with her arm around a family member

Pam reading on a sofa with a family member and dog

There will be an informal memorial service for Pam on the 27th of September in Peka Peka (Kāpiti Coast).

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If you have any memories or photos of your time with Pam, we would love to see them.

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Memories

When I think of Pam, the picture that comes up is this kind of shrewd, funny, knowing, playful? look that she would do. I don't have a word to describe it, but it was very cool :-D

This is what you shall do; Love the earth and sun and the animals, despise riches, give alms to every one that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants, argue not concerning God, have patience and indulgence toward the people, take off your hat to nothing known or unknown or to any man or number of men, go freely with powerful uneducated persons and with the young and with the mothers of families, read these leaves in the open air every season of every year of your life, re-examine all you have been told at school or church or in any book, dismiss whatever insults your own soul, and your very flesh shall be a great poem and have the richest fluency not only in its words but in the silent lines of its lips and face and between the lashes of your eyes and in every motion and joint of your body.
— Walt Whitman

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